A few weeks ago, I got an email from a new investor who was having some serious difficulty talking to prospects on the phone.
The funny thing was – he had actually managed to execute every other step of his process very well.
- He had reached out to the right people.
- He had tailored his mail piece just right.
- He took action and pulled the trigger on his first direct mail campaign.
- His phone was starting to ring off the hook!
The only problem was – he was having an incredibly difficult time talking with strangers on the phone. He didn’t know what to say, he didn’t know what questions to ask, and when he didn’t have an immediate answer to a caller’s question, the conversations would get awkward and start to spiral out of control.
The Importance Of Your Phone Skills
The fact is, a serious real estate investor needs to know how to communicate on the phone – there’s just no way around it. In many cases, your first phone call will be the most important interaction you have with a person. Like it or not, this is when your prospect will make some immediate judgements about who you are and whether you’re a trustworthy person they can do business with. I hate to be so blunt – but if you don’t know how to handle yourself on the phone, you’re going to have a very hard time succeeding in the real estate business.
On the same coin – I think it’s also worth acknowledging that it’s okay to struggle in the beginning… in fact, I’d be seriously impressed if you didn’t experience some setback as you’re getting started!
A little bit of “phone anxiety” actually makes sense when you think about it… for most of us – it’s not normal to initiate dozens of conversations with strangers on the phone. When I first started this business, I had a TON of awkward phone conversations (I’ll explain more in a second) but as much as I hated the process – I have to say, it has made me a much better communicator in the end, and that’s a skill that no amount of money can buy.
When people struggle with awkward phone conversations, I think the problem usually boils down to a few things:
1. Discomfort with talking to strangers on the phone
When you’re trying to generate calls from sellers, you’re going to talk to a lot of people you don’t know – people from all walks of life. Some of these conversations will be easier than others and that’s okay.
Talking to strangers doesn’t need to be scary or intimidating but for some reason, a lot people over-think it. We’re all told from a very young age, “Never talk to strangers” and this kind of mindset has been pounded into our psyche for years – it’s no wonder some of us have such a hard time with it! The thing to remember is that the person on the other end of the phone is just another human being. They’re no better than you. They’re no worse than you (and frankly – you don’t ever have to talk to them again if you don’t want to). The conversation will go in whichever direction you allow it to go – so don’t be afraid to step in and steer it where it needs to go.
2. Not knowing what to say when a prospect calls
This is an easy mistake to make and fortunately, it’s probably the easiest problem to solve. Whenever you’re talking to a new prospect, just think of it as though you’re going through a questionnaire. You should have a very simple list of questions that you need them to answer for you – and the point of the call is simply to get as many answers as you can.
It doesn’t need to be a long list (mine has about 15 questions on it), but you should come up with a basic checklist of the vital information you need in order to make an offer (or run in the other direction).
Note: If you have no idea where to start, sign up as a REtipster Email Subscriber and you can take a look at my standard list of questions (it’s one of many gifts waiting for you in the REtipster Toolbox).
3. Lack of Self-Confidence
When I was a new investor, this was by far my biggest problem (and it took me a long time to realize it). My lack of confidence had everything to do with the way I perceived myself. I considered myself to be an inexperienced “kid” who had no idea what he was doing. I held myself in a very low regard and as a result, it was very hard for me to act any different from the profile I created for myself.
If you want to get good at talking on the phone with a total stranger, you must have confidence yourself. Let’s get one thing straight – you are NOT here to impress anyone. The point of your first call is to simply get acquainted with the seller’s situation and get some answers. Be friendly and talk with a positive tone, but don’t act submissive. Remember, if you’re talking to the right people – they’re going to need YOU more than you need them. If someone is rude or starts disrespecting you, the conversations get real simple – you end it.
You don’t need to take abuse from someone who doesn’t even know you – so if it starts going down this road, simply walk away.
My Experience With Bad Phone Calls
Most you probably don’t know this, but I have had PLENTY of experience with awkward phone conversations in my life.
Early in my career – I used to suffer from a debilitating level of anxiety when it came to phone conversations. I was a complete and utter nervous wreck. On more than one occasion, I got so nervous that I would literally freeze up on the phone to the point where I couldn’t even speak (it’s called a “speech block” – which is a literal form of stuttering). It was probably the most difficult thing I’ve ever had to deal with in my adult life – no joke. I allowed it to become a HUGE stumbling block and then proceeded to beat myself up about it.
I know from experience that a bad phone conversation (regardless of who it’s with) can be a terrible feeling. When a phone call spirals out of control and goes down in flames – it can do some serious damage to a person’s sense self-confidence (especially if you internalize this kind of thing like I did).
I know I’m not the only person who struggled with this. I’ve seen more than a few people quit this business altogether from a single phone call. It’s that bad.
Practice Makes Perfect
If you’re struggling with clear communication on the phone, let me tell you that it’s OKAY to crash and burn on the phone every once in a while (especially if you’re a total beginner at this). It’s not uncommon AT ALL for the first one or two (or three, or four) phone calls to be awkward and uncomfortable. What’s important is that you don’t give up.
It is very important to practice. After doing so many of these calls for years on end, I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even think twice about picking up the phone anymore. Talking to strangers on the phone has become almost as natural as breathing… but I only got to this point because I practiced.
Likewise, the only way you’re ever going to get better is if you continue to pick up the phone and make those calls, even after you have one of those “bad experiences”. I want you to sound like an expert on the phone because this is a skill that will take you a long way in life (even if it has nothing to do with real estate).
It takes practice, so keep going – even when it gets tough.
Develop & Memorize A Few “Canned Phrases”
I’ve found that it’s important to have a few scripted phrases when you’re making these calls – simple sentences to fall back on (just so you sound like you know what you’re doing).
For example – you can start each conversation with an opening line about who you are and why you sent them a postcard:
“I’m an investor and I buy properties all over the country. I sent you that postcard because I saw that you were a property owner in an area that I’d like to invest in.”
“I’m a real estate investor and I buy houses from people all over the country who want to be relieved from the burden of their unwanted property.”
You can also insert a brief explanation of why you’re interested in their particular property
“The reason you got that postcard from me is because I found your name in the public records as a land owner. Since I’m looking specifically for vacant land in this area, I wanted to see if you’d be interested in selling your property any time soon.”
If they start acting rude, badgering you with questions or accuse you a being a scammer (which is quite rare, btw), just be nice and say something like this.
“Like I said, I’m just an investor looking for potential investment properties in your area. I have cash and I’m ready buy in the next 30 days… but it doesn’t sound like you’re interested in working together – best of luck in finding a buyer elsewhere! Goodbye.”
These kinds of “canned phrases” helped me A LOT. When I got into a situation where I was unsure of how to respond – I could fall back on these phrases (which I knew very well). As a result, I was able to sound much more confident, which led people to trust me and be more open to what I had to say (and this ultimately resulted in doing more deals and making more money).
Experience Is The Best Teacher
Believe me, I’ve had plenty of awkward phone calls in my time. Sometimes they just don’t go well, at all… but don’t let this get you down. This is a very normal part of the learning process, and you will get better in time.
The first time you have a conversation with a prospective seller, you have a golden opportunity to speak directly with the source of MUCH of the information you’re going to need. This is important because you can usually glean 90% of the information you’ll need to know before you decide to purchase (all subject to verification, of course).
If you’re dealing with shyness (or an overall lack of confidence), this video from Ramit Sethi may offer some valuable insights as well.
And last but not least, be sure to check out this insightful blog post from Karl James – who did a masterful job of summarizing his experience and growing process.
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